“Who Am I?”

Yesterday one of my amazing, articulate clients emailed me this question:

“How do I find myself? Who am I? How do I become what I really am when I have no idea who I am?”

I think we all struggle with these questions in some form or another. The moment I read her question I downloaded the answer from the Divine. I needed the answer for myself as much as she needed this answer. And because you might need it also, I’m sharing the Divine’s answer to those very important questions.

You find yourself in the moment. You discover who you are in this moment and you 1) accept that person and 2) Love that person.

Then you figure out what who-you-are-in-this-moment wants and needs and you honor that and take action on it.

By doing that you start to release what is-not-you.

As you release what is-not-you, you become more who-you-really-are.

As you lean into who you really are you evolve and who-you-are-in-this-moment is different than the version of you the day before. So you do it all over again. You 1) accept that person and 2) Love that person.

Then you figure out what who-you-are-in-this-moment wants and needs and you honor that and take action on it.

And slowly over time you release what isn’t authentic to you and you embody more of what is true.

And in doing all of this (especially the loving yourself part and everything that goes into that) you heal and you grow. Wounds that ran deep and dictated reactions no longer have power over you.

I think we all struggle because we want to know if we do x,y and z in a week (or month or year) we’ll be wholly, perfectly us. It doesn’t work like that. Its a constant process. An evolution.

But the good news…it only ever requires micro steps. Honoring what you need and want in this very moment is all you need to do. Always and ever.
P.S. The client that asked these questions makes A LOT of money. And she does it really, really easily. I share that simply because so many women I meet think that there is a direct correlation between money and the answers to these questions and there is not.

When you pursue the answers to these questions you enjoy money and all of life’s abundance at a greater level but money will not answer these questions for you. Only you – the soul in your human self – can lead you to become who you truly are.